ups. She asked me if I would feel better some evenings if I slept in a gown instead of my PJ's. When I answered affirmatively she said anytime I felt like it just lock the bedroom door, so our daughter couldn't come in, and go right ahead. She actually switched from a “D” wife to a “B,” in a matter of days. So you can see why I am so thankful to all of you there at Chevalier Publications.

Last month my daughter went up north to be a bridesmaid, at a rela- tive's wedding. So my wife suggested I purchase a small wardrobe to wear at home, while she was gone. For the four days that my daughter was gone, it was fantastic here at home. When my brother came home from work, I got fully dressed. On our day off, I was dressed all day. It was the first time I spent a whole day, without fears and frustrations. Also the first time I had stayed that way at home with my wife there.

She (my wife) has suggested that we go away to a motel for an evening once in awhile. So I can be me. Also has asked me to increase my ward- robe a little at a time, so as not to make the increase in clothes in the closet too obvious to our child. From these short commentaries, you can see the differences TVia has already made in my life. Thank God for Virginia, for lifting the veil of misunderstanding and nonunderstanding that we both had.

I will be anxiously watching the mail for my FPE application.

Sincerely, Stella

Dear Virginia,

I thought you might like to see this letter, received this morning. Being that all contact ads are coded, the closest I can guess, is that this letter belongs to the wife of

I sure am glad that I did not give my correct name, in answer to his ad. Perhaps it would be a good idea to warn other members, not to write this person, or, if they do, expect a strong sermon in return.

Being that this letter was sent to me, it would be perfectly legal for you to print it, in "letters." This clearly shows the other side. You have my permission to print it.

All I can say about it, is WOW!

Sincerest regards, Stella 9-L-4